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本杰明·富兰克林:本杰明·富兰克林自传·补录 36
本杰明·富兰克林《本杰明·富兰克林自传》· The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin · 领导
I had made some courtship during this time to Miss Read. I had a great respect and affection for her, and had some reason to believe she had the same for me; but, as I was about to take a long voyage, and we were both very young, only a little above eighteen, it was thought most prudent by her mother to prevent our going too far at present, as a marriage, if it was to take place, would be more convenient after my return, when I should be, as I expected, set up in my business. Perhaps, too, she thought my expectations not so well founded as I imagined them to be.
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富兰克林在这段时间向里德小姐求婚。他敬重爱慕她,也相信她对自己有意。但他即将远航,两人都才十八岁出头,里德母亲认为暂缓最稳妥:等富兰克林回来、事业安定后再结婚更合适。她可能也觉得富兰克林的预期不如他想的那么有把握。核心是:年轻时的承诺需要现实基础,长辈的谨慎未必是阻挠。做法是:远行前把关系说清楚,不仓促定终身;用行动和稳定计划赢得信任,而不是只靠热情。
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《富兰克林自传》中他与里德小姐的早期恋情,后来两人历经波折才结婚。
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你或身边人有没有因“等稳定再说”而搁置的感情?后来怎么看?
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