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安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导

Among the manifold blessings I have to be thankful for is that neither nurse nor governess was my companion in infancy. No wonder the children of the poor are distinguished for the warmest affection and the closest adherence to family ties and are characterized by a filial regard far stronger than that of those who are mistakenly called more fortunate in life. They have passed the impressionable years of childhood and youth in constant loving contact with father and mother, to each they are all in all, no third person coming between. The child that has in his father a teacher, companion, and counselor, and whose mother is to him a nurse, seamstress, governess, teacher, companion, heroine, and saint all in one, has a heritage to which the child of wealth remains a stranger.

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/17976
定位:Additional excerpt 119 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

卡内基庆幸自己幼年没有保姆或家庭教师贴身照料。他说穷人家的孩子往往对家人感情最深、最恋家,因为童年和少年那些最易受影响的年月,他们一直与父母亲密相处,父母就是他们的全部,没有第三个人插在中间。父亲兼老师、伙伴和顾问,母亲兼护士、裁缝、教师、伙伴、女英雄和圣人,这样的孩子得到一份财富家庭孩子无缘体会的遗产。核心是:亲自陪伴和共同生活,比雇人代劳更能建立深厚亲情。今天再忙,也值得留出与孩子共处的时间。

上下文

卡内基自传中回忆童年家境贫寒、父母亲自养育的经历,并对比富裕家庭由保姆代劳的教养方式。

今日一问

这周你能安排哪一段不被打扰的时间,亲自陪孩子或家人做一件小事?

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