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安德鲁·卡内基:安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 120
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
There comes a time, although the fond mother cannot see it, when a grown son has to put his arms around his saint and kissing her tenderly try to explain to her that it would be much better were she to let him help her in some ways; that, being out in the world among men and dealing with affairs, he sometimes sees changes which it would be desirable to make; that the mode of life delightful for young boys should be changed in some respects and the house made suitable for their friends to enter. Especially should the slaving mother live the life of ease hereafter, reading and visiting more and entertaining dear friends--in short, rising to her proper and deserved position as Her Ladyship.
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定位:Additional excerpt 120 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
卡内基说,总有一天,做儿子的要搂住他那圣人般的母亲,温柔地吻她,试着解释:最好让她在某些事上接受他的帮助;他在外面与人和事务打交道,有时看出家里该做些改变;适合小男孩的生活方式,某些方面也该调整,让房子便于朋友来往。尤其要让操劳的母亲此后过得轻松些,多读书、多走动、多招待好友,总之升到她本该有的尊贵位置。核心是:孝不只是顺从,还包括温和地接过担子、改善父母的生活。做法是选好时机、用体贴的方式提建议,而不是硬邦邦地纠正。
上下文
卡内基自传中回忆成长后想改善母亲生活、劝她放下操劳的一段感慨,语气温和而敬重。
今日一问
你有没有想过,怎样温和地劝父母放下一些操劳、接受你的照顾?
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