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安德鲁·卡内基：安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 20
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
One cause of misery there was, however, in my school experience. The boys nicknamed me "Martin's pet," and sometimes called out that dreadful epithet to me as I passed along the street. I did not know all that it meant, but it seemed to me a term of the utmost opprobrium, and I know that it kept me from responding as freely as I should otherwise have done to that excellent teacher, my only schoolmaster, to whom I owe a debt of gratitude which I regret I never had opportunity to do more than acknowledge before he died.
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定位：Additional excerpt 20 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
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然而，学校经历中有一件痛苦的事。男孩们给我起外号叫“马丁的宠儿”，有时在我走过街道时冲我喊这个可怕的绰号。我并不完全明白它的意思，但觉得这是最大的侮辱，我知道它让我不能更自由地回应那位优秀的老师——我唯一的校长，我欠他一份感激，遗憾的是在他去世前我没能当面好好道谢。核心是：同伴的嘲笑会让孩子压抑对老师的亲近，造成长久遗憾。今天要留意孩子的社交压力，鼓励他们表达感激，别让面子阻碍真情。
上下文
卡内基自传中回忆因被同学起绰号而不敢亲近老师，后来引以为憾。
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你是否有过因怕被嘲笑而没向帮助过你的人表达感谢？现在可以做什么？
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