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安德鲁·卡内基:安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 321
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
The writer of a book designed for his friends has no reason to anticipate an unkind reception, but there is always some danger of its being damned with faint praise. The responses in my case, however, exceeded expectations, and were of such a character as to satisfy me that the writers really had enjoyed the book, or meant at least a part of what they said about it. Every author is prone to believe sweet words. Among the first that came were in a letter from Anthony Drexel, Philadelphia's great banker, complaining that I had robbed him of several hours of sleep. Having begun the book he could not lay it down and retired at two o'clock in the morning after finishing. Several similar letters were received. I remember Mr. Huntington, president of the Central Pacific Railway, meeting me one morning and saying he was going to pay me a great compliment.
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定位:Additional excerpt 321 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
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卡内基写书给朋友看,本没指望多好评,但反馈超出预期。费城银行家德雷克塞尔写信抱怨说,书让他少睡了好几小时,因为一翻开就放不下,读到凌晨两点。类似信件不少。中央太平洋铁路总裁亨廷顿也当面说要给他一个大大的赞美。核心是:真诚的反馈往往藏在具体行为里,比如熬夜读完。判断一本书或一个产品好不好,别只听客套话,看对方是否愿意付出时间、是否主动传播。
上下文
卡内基自传中回忆自己出版游记《环游世界》后收到的朋友反馈。
今日一问
你最近收到的反馈里,哪些是客套,哪些是对方用行动(时间、推荐)投的票?
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