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爱德华·博克：爱德华·博克自传·补录 489
爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导
The displeasure was not slow in making itself manifest. It came to maturity overnight, as it were, and expressed itself in no uncertain terms. Every club flew to arms, and Bok was intensely interested to note that the clubs whose work he had taken as "horrible examples," although he had not mentioned their names, were the most strenuous in their denials of the methods outlined in the magazine, and that the members of those clubs were particularly heated in their attacks upon him.
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定位：Additional excerpt 489 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
白话
不满很快就显现出来，几乎一夜之间就成熟了，而且表达得毫不含糊。每个俱乐部都跳起来反击。博克特别注意到：那些被他当作“反面典型”的俱乐部——虽然他并没点名——反而最激烈地否认杂志描述的做法，其成员攻击他也最起劲。这说明被影射的人往往反应最大。今天你提意见时，如果对方反应异常激烈，可能恰恰说明你说中了；但也要注意方式，别让防御心理盖过改进的可能。
上下文
博克的批评文章发表后，妇女俱乐部群起抗议，他观察到一个耐人寻味的现象。
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当你被批评时，你的第一反应是辩解还是先想想对方说中了什么？
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