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爱德华·博克:爱德华·博克自传·补录 556
爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导
"You can rail against the Paris domination all you like; you can expose it for the fraud that it is, and we know that it is; but it is all to no purpose, take my word. When it comes to the question of her personal adornment, a woman employs no reason; she knows no logic. She knows that the adornment of her body is all that she has to match the other woman and outdo her, and to attract the male, and nothing that you can say will influence her a particle. I know this all seems incomprehensible to you as a man, but that is the feminine nature. You are trying to fight something that is unfightable."
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https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/3538
定位:Additional excerpt 556 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
一位女性对博克说:你尽管骂巴黎主导、揭穿它是骗局,我们也知道是骗局,但没用。说到打扮,女人不用理性,也不讲逻辑。她知道打扮是她跟别的女人较劲、压过对方、吸引男性的全部本钱,你说什么都不会动摇她一分。我知道这对你作为男人来说不可理解,但这就是女性天性。你在跟一个打不赢的东西斗。这话点出一个残酷现实:当一件事关乎身份竞争和面子,光讲事实和逻辑往往无效。
上下文
博克向一位有判断力的女性倾诉推广受阻,对方直言女性在打扮上不受理性影响。
今日一问
你正在说服别人的事,是不是正好撞上了对方用来较劲和撑面子的领域?
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