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P.T. 巴纳姆:奋斗与胜利·补录 25

P.T. 巴纳姆《奋斗与胜利》· Struggles and Triumphs · 领导

My first impressions of this girl as I saw her at the house were exceedingly favorable. As soon as we started I began a conversation with her and finding her very affable I regretted that the distance to Bethel was not five miles instead of one. A flash of lightning gave me a distinct view of the face of my fair companion and then I wished the distance was twenty miles. During our ride I learned that she was a tailoress, working with Mr. Zerah Benedict, of Bethel. We soon arrived at our destination and I bid her good night and went home. The next day I saw her at church, and, indeed, many Sundays afterwards, but I had no opportunity to renew the acquaintance that season.

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/50115
定位:Additional excerpt 25 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

巴纳姆第一眼就对这姑娘印象极好。一上路他就搭话,发现她很好相处,遗憾到贝瑟尔的路只有一英里而不是五英里。一道闪电照亮她的脸,他又希望路有二十英里。路上得知她是裁缝,在贝瑟尔的泽拉·本尼迪克特先生那里做工。很快到了目的地,他道晚安回家。第二天在教堂见到她,之后许多周日也见到,但那个季节没机会进一步交往。核心是:心动时要主动创造接触机会,否则缘分容易错过。做法是搭话、了解对方、找下次见面的理由。

上下文

巴纳姆护送查丽蒂回贝瑟尔途中,两人初次交谈,他产生好感,但之后一段时间没有进一步发展。

今日一问

你最近一次心动时,是主动创造了下一次见面的理由,还是让机会溜走了?

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