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奥里森·斯威特·马登:向前进·摘录 487

奥里森·斯威特·马登《向前进》· Pushing to the Front · 领导

The overdressed young woman is merely the feminine of the overdressed young man. The manners of both seem to have a subtle connection with their clothes. They are loud, flashy, vulgar. Their style of dress bespeaks a type of character even more objectionable than that of the slovenly, untidily dressed person. The world accepts the truth announced by Shakespeare that "the apparel oft proclaims the man"; and the man and the woman, too, are frequently condemned by the very garb which they think makes them so irresistible. At first sight, it may seem hasty or superficial to judge men or women by their clothes, but experience has proved, again and again, that they do, as a rule, measure the sense and self-respect of the wearer; and aspirants to success should be as careful in choosing their dress as their companions, for the old adage: "Tell me thy company and I will tell thee what thou art," is offset by this wise saying of some philosopher of the commonplace: "Show me all the dresses a woman has worn in the course of her life, and I will write you her biography."

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/21291
定位:Excerpt 487 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

过度打扮的年轻女子不过是过度打扮的年轻男子的女性版。两者的举止似乎都和衣服有微妙联系:张扬、浮夸、俗气。她们的穿着透出的性格类型,甚至比邋遢不整的人更让人反感。世人接受莎士比亚说的“衣装常能道出其人”,而这些人恰恰被自己以为魅力无穷的打扮判了低分。单凭衣服判断人乍看草率,但经验一再证明,人们通常会据此衡量穿者的见识和自尊。想成功的人挑衣服该像挑同伴一样谨慎,因为“告诉我你跟谁在一起,我就告诉你是什么人”这句老话,正被另一位哲人的话补足:“把你一生穿过的所有衣服拿给我看,我就能写出你的传记。”

上下文

马登延续前文,讨论衣着与品格的关系,引用莎士比亚《哈姆雷特》中的名句说明外表常暴露内在。

今日一问

你今天的穿着在向别人传递什么信息?它和你想要成为的人一致吗?

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