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普鲁塔克《希腊罗马名人传》· Plutarch's Lives · 领导 · 历史 · 健康 · 认知
Another difference happened between him and Hephaestion concerning a gift, and a great deal of ill language passed between them, yet Eumenes still continued in favor. But Hephaestion dying soon after, the king, in his grief, presuming all those that differed with Hephaestion in his lifetime were now rejoicing at his death, showed much harshness and severity in his behavior with them, especially towards Eumenes, whom he often upbraided with his quarrels and ill language to Hephaestion. But he, being a wise and dexterous courtier, made advantage of what had done him prejudice, and struck in with the king's passion for glorifying his friend's memory, suggesting various plans to do him honor, and contributing largely and readily towards erecting his monument.
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定位：Excerpt 82 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
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欧墨奈斯与赫费斯提翁因赏赐争执，互相辱骂，但欧墨奈斯仍受宠。赫费斯提翁死后，亚历山大悲痛，迁怒于曾与赫费斯提翁不和的人，尤其常责备欧墨奈斯。欧墨奈斯机敏，顺势迎合国王纪念亡友的心意，积极提议各种荣誉，并慷慨出资建纪念碑，从而化解敌意。这告诉我们，面对上级的情绪化问责，硬碰硬不如顺势而为：理解对方核心诉求，主动提供解决方案，甚至把批评转化为表现忠诚的机会，往往能转危为安。
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出自《欧墨奈斯传》，记述亚历山大帝的秘书欧墨奈斯与近臣赫费斯提翁的矛盾及后续。
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当上级因情绪迁怒于你时，你能否找到既化解矛盾又展现价值的做法？
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