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本杰明·富兰克林《本杰明·富兰克林自传》· The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin · 领导
At New York I found my friend Collins, who had arriv'd there some time before me. We had been intimate from children, and had read the same books together; but he had the advantage of more time for reading and studying, and a wonderful genius for mathematical learning, in which he far outstript me. While I liv'd in Boston most of my hours of leisure for conversation were spent with him, and he continu'd a sober as well as an industrious lad; was much respected for his learning by several of the clergy and other gentlemen, and seemed to promise making a good figure in life. But, during my absence, he had acquir'd a habit of sotting with brandy; and I found by his own account, and what I heard from others, that he had been drunk every day since his arrival at New York, and behav'd very oddly. He had gam'd, too, and lost his money, so that I was oblig'd to discharge his lodgings, and defray his expenses to and at Philadelphia, which prov'd extremely inconvenient to me.
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富兰克林在纽约遇到儿时好友柯林斯。柯林斯曾好学、擅长数学,受人尊敬,但富兰克林离开期间他染上酗酒恶习,到纽约后天天喝醉,还赌博输钱,富兰克林只好替他付房租和去费城的开销,感到非常不便。核心是:才能再好,若被恶习拖垮,也会连累朋友。做法是:对朋友的不良习惯早提醒、设边界;帮忙时量力而行,不替对方承担所有后果;同时警惕自己别因环境变化放松自律。
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《富兰克林自传》中回忆青年时期的朋友柯林斯,展现习惯如何改变一个人。
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你身边有没有因坏习惯而走下坡路的朋友?你帮到哪一步就该停?
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