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安德鲁·卡内基：安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 113
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
His promotion to the superintendency gave rise to some jealousy; and besides that, he was confronted with a strike at the very beginning of his appointment. He had lost his wife in Pittsburgh a short time before and had his lonely hours. He was a stranger in Altoona, his new headquarters, and there was none but myself seemingly of whom he could make a companion. We lived for many weeks at the railway hotel together before he took up housekeeping and brought his children from Pittsburgh, and at his desire I occupied the same large bedroom with him. He seemed anxious always to have me near him.
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定位：Additional excerpt 113 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
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卡内基的上司斯科特升任主管后，招来一些嫉妒，上任伊始又碰上罢工；此前不久他在匹兹堡丧妻，独自一人到阿尔图纳这个陌生地方，孤独无依。卡内基成了他唯一能作伴的人，两人在铁路旅馆同住数周，斯科特还希望卡内基和他同住一间大卧室，总想让他待在身边。这说明：一个人职位越高、处境越孤立，越需要可信的陪伴。若你身边有刚升职或刚遭变故的人，主动靠近、做他的日常同伴，比说漂亮话更有用。
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卡内基自传回忆在宾夕法尼亚铁路阿尔图纳任职时，与上司斯科特同住旅馆、朝夕相伴的一段经历。
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你身边有没有刚升职或刚经历变故、正感到孤立的人，可以主动去陪一陪？
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