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P.T. 巴纳姆：奋斗与胜利·补录 235
P.T. 巴纳姆《奋斗与胜利》· Struggles and Triumphs · 领导
The captain and myself had no further intercourse for five or six days; not until a few hours before our arrival in New York. Being at dinner, he sent his champagne bottle to me, and asked to “drink my health,” at the same time stating that he hoped no ill-feeling would be carried ashore. I was not then, as I am now, a teetotaler; so I accepted the proffered truce, and I regret that I must add I “washed down” my wrath in a bottle of Heidsick--a poor example, which I hope never to repeat. We have frequently met since, and always with friendly greetings; but I have ever felt that his manners were unnecessarily coarse and offensive in carrying out an arbitrary and bigoted rule of the steamship company.
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定位：Additional excerpt 235 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
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巴纳姆和船长五六天没说话，直到快到纽约前几小时。吃饭时船长送来香槟，祝他健康，希望别把不快带上岸。巴纳姆当时还没戒酒，接受了和解，用一瓶香槟“冲淡”怒气。他后悔这个坏榜样，希望不再犯。后来他们常友好见面，但他始终觉得船长执行公司死板规定时态度粗鲁。核心是：和解可以接受，但别用有害方式发泄情绪。面对冲突，可以接受善意，同时保留对不当行为的判断。
上下文
巴纳姆与船长因船上规定发生争执，临近下船时船长主动示好。巴纳姆后来成为禁酒倡导者。
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当你与人发生冲突后对方示好，你会如何既接受和解又不违背自己的原则？
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