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P.T. 巴纳姆:奋斗与胜利·补录 606

P.T. 巴纳姆《奋斗与胜利》· Struggles and Triumphs · 领导

I purchased a very splendid wardrobe for Miss Warren, including scores of the richest dresses that could be procured, costly jewels, and in fact everything that could add to the charms of her naturally charming little person. She was then placed on exhibition at the Museum and from the day of her _débût_ she was an extraordinary success. Commodore Nutt was on exhibition with her, and although he was several years her junior he evidently took a great fancy to her. One day I presented to Lavinia a diamond and emerald ring, and as it did not exactly fit her finger, I told her I would give her another one and that she might present this one to the Commodore in her own name. She did so, and an unlooked-for effect was speedily apparent; the little Commodore felt sure that this was a love-token, and poor Lavinia was in the greatest trouble, for she considered herself quite a woman, and regarded the Commodore only as a nice little boy. But she did not like to offend him, and while she did not encourage, she did not openly repel his attentions. Miss Lavinia Warren, however, was never destined to be Mrs. Commodore Nutt.

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定位:Additional excerpt 606 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

巴纳姆为沃伦小姐购置了华丽衣橱和珠宝,让她在博物馆展出,一炮而红。同时展出的纳特准将对拉维尼亚有好感。巴纳姆送她一枚戒指,因尺寸不合,让她转赠给准将。结果准将以为这是定情信物,拉维尼亚很苦恼,她只把对方当小男孩,但又不愿伤他心,所以既不鼓励也不明确拒绝。这说明:送礼和传话要谨慎,尤其是涉及感情暗示时,模糊的善意可能被误解。及时澄清比拖延更负责。

上下文

拉维尼亚·沃伦在巴纳姆的博物馆展出后大受欢迎,与矮人准将纳特之间产生了感情误会。

今日一问

你有没有因为含糊的善意,让别人产生了误会?该如何澄清?

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