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爱比克泰德:论说集与手册·摘录 22
爱比克泰德《论说集与手册》· Discourses and Enchiridion · 健康 · 认知 · 行动 · 人性
She thought that to indulge her passion and take vengeance on her husband was more profitable than to spare her children. It was so; but she was deceived. Show her plainly that she is deceived, and she will not do it; but so long as you do not show it, what can she follow except that which appears to herself (her opinion)? Nothing else. Why then are you angry with the unhappy woman that she has been bewildered about the most important things, and is become a viper instead of a human creature? And why not, if it is possible, rather pity, as we pity the blind and the lame, so those who are blinded and maimed in the faculties which are supreme?
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定位:Excerpt 22 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
美狄亚认为放纵激情、报复丈夫比保全孩子更有利。她确实这么做了,但她是被错误判断欺骗了。如果你能清楚地让她看到这是错的,她就不会这么做。但在你揭示之前,她只能跟随自己认为正确的意见。所以,你为什么要对一个在最重要事情上迷失、从人变成毒蛇的不幸女人发怒呢?为什么不尽可能同情她,就像我们同情盲人和跛子一样,同情那些在最高能力上失明和残废的人呢?
上下文
爱比克泰德引用欧里庇得斯悲剧《美狄亚》的情节,说明错误判断导致恶行,应同情而非愤怒。
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面对一个因错误认知而伤害他人的人,你能先试着理解而非愤怒吗?
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