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拉尔夫·沃尔多·爱默生:随笔·摘录 42

拉尔夫·沃尔多·爱默生《随笔》· Essays · 投资 · 财富 · 健康 · 认知

Experienced men of the world know very well that it is best to pay scot and lot[131] as they go along, and that a man often pays dear for a small frugality. The borrower runs in his own debt. Has a man gained anything who has received a hundred favors and rendered none? Has he gained by borrowing, through indolence or cunning, his neighbor's wares, or horses, or money? There arises on the deed the instant acknowledgment of benefit on the one part, and of debt on the other; that is, of superiority and inferiority. The transaction remains in the memory of himself and his neighbor; and every new transaction alters, according to its nature, their relation to each other. He may soon come to see that he had better have broken his own bones than to have ridden in his neighbor's coach, and that "the highest price he can pay for a thing is to ask for it."

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定位:Excerpt 42 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

老于世故的人很清楚,最好边走边付清账,人常因小节俭而付出大代价。借债者其实欠自己的债。一个人受了百般恩惠却毫无回报,他真得到了什么吗?他靠懒惰或狡诈借了邻居的货物、马匹或钱,他赚了吗?行为发生的那一刻,就产生了受益与负债、优越与低下的承认。这笔交易留在自己和邻居的记忆里,每次新交易都会改变彼此关系。他可能很快明白,宁可摔断自己的骨头,也不坐邻居的马车;而且“为一件东西付出的最高代价,就是开口去要它”。

上下文

爱默生《随笔集》,论补偿与自立,强调人际交易中的隐性代价。

健康板块的原文与白话解读仅供阅读学习,不构成医疗建议。

今日一问

你最近一次图方便占的便宜,是否在悄悄改变你和对方的关系?

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