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塞内卡:塞内卡道德书简·摘录 97
塞内卡《塞内卡道德书简》· Seneca's Morals · 健康 · 行动 · 心性 · 领导
It is a kind of spiteful comfort, that whoever does me an injury may receive one; and that there is a power over him that is above me. A man should stand as firm against all indignities as a rock does against the waves. As it is some satisfaction to a man in a mean condition that there is no security in a more prosperous; and as the loss of a son in a corner is borne with more patience upon the sight of a funeral carried out of a palace; so are injuries and contempts the more tolerable from a meaner person, when we consider, that the greatest men and fortunes are not exempt. The wisest also of mortals have their failings, and no man living is without the same excuse. The difference is, that we do not all of us transgress the same way; but we are obliged in humanity to bear one with another.
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定位:Excerpt 97 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
有一种带恶意的安慰:伤害我的人也可能被伤害,他上面还有更高的力量。人应像岩石面对海浪一样坚定。地位低的人想到高位也不安全,就像在角落失去儿子,看到皇宫也办丧事,心里会好受些;受小人物侮辱时,想到大人物和大财富也不能幸免,就更能忍受。最智慧的人也有缺点,没人没有同样的借口。区别只是我们犯错方式不同,但人性要求我们互相容忍。核心是:想到人人都会犯错、无人豁免,就能更宽容。做法是:受冒犯时提醒自己“换作我也可能这样”。
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塞涅卡继续论述如何面对侮辱与伤害,强调人人都有弱点,应互相宽容。
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当你被冒犯时,能否想到“换作是我,也可能犯同样的错”,从而更容易放下?
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