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安德鲁·卡内基:安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 42
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
She stood a tragic queen. The next moment she had broken down, but only for a few moments did tears fall and sobs come. Then she took her two boys in her arms and told us not to mind her foolishness. There were many things in the world for us to do and we could be useful men, honored and respected, if we always did what was right. It was a repetition of Helen Macgregor, in her reply to Osbaldistone in which she threatened to have her prisoners "chopped into as many pieces as there are checks in the tartan." But the reason for the outburst was different. It was not because the occupation suggested was peaceful labor, for we were taught that idleness was disgraceful; but because the suggested occupation was somewhat vagrant in character and not entirely respectable in her eyes. Better death. Yes, mother would have taken her two boys, one under each arm, and perished with them rather than they should mingle with low company in their extreme youth.
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定位:Additional excerpt 42 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
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母亲像悲剧女王一样站着,随即崩溃大哭,但只哭了一小会儿。然后她把两个儿子搂在怀里,说不必在意她的失态;世上可做的事很多,只要永远做对的事,就能成为受人尊敬的有用之人。卡内基解释,母亲发火不是因为 suggested 的职业是和平劳动——他们家教认为闲散才可耻——而是因为那差事带有流浪性质,在她眼里不够体面。她宁可带着两个孩子一起死,也不愿他们幼年就混迹低层。核心是:体面感有时比生存更驱动人,但也要警惕它变成偏见。
上下文
这段紧接母亲怒斥霍根之后。卡内基用司各特小说中海伦·麦克格雷戈的激烈形象作比,说明母亲 outburst 的根源是“体面”而非“劳动”。
今日一问
你追求的“体面”,是在保护你,还是在限制你?
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