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爱德华·博克:爱德华·博克自传·补录 297

爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导

It was a lively friendship that Eugene Field gave to Edward Bok, full of anxieties and of continuous forebodings, but it was worth all that it cost in mental perturbation. No rarer friend ever lived: in his serious moments he gave one a quality of unforgetable friendship that remains a precious memory. But his desire for practical jokes was uncontrollable: it meant being constantly on one's guard, and even then the pranks could not always be thwarted!

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/3538
定位:Additional excerpt 297 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

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菲尔德给博克的友谊热闹而折腾,充满担心和提防,但博克觉得值得。菲尔德认真的时候,能给人难忘的友情,成为珍贵的回忆;可他搞恶作剧的冲动控制不住,跟他相处得时刻警惕,即便如此也防不胜防。这告诉我们:交朋友要看整体,不能因为一个毛病就否定一个人。但也要认清对方的边界,提前想好应对办法,别让“有趣”变成自己的负担。真正的友谊不是没有麻烦,而是麻烦之后仍觉得值得。

上下文

博克总结他与菲尔德的友谊。菲尔德是诗人,才华横溢,却以恶作剧闻名。

今日一问

你能否接受一个才华横溢但总让你提心吊胆的朋友?

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