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爱德华·博克:爱德华·博克自传·补录 352
爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导
Bok had with such remarkable uniformity secured whatever he sought, that these experiences were new to him. Frankly, they puzzled him. He was not easily baffled, but baffled he now was, and that twice in succession. Turn as he might, he could find no way in which to reopen an approach to either the Oxford tutor or the Crimean nurse. They were plainly too much for him, and he had to acknowledge his defeat. The experience was good for him; he did not realize this at the time, nor did he enjoy the sensation of not getting what he wanted. Nevertheless, a reverse or two was due. Not that his success was having any undesirable effect upon him; his Dutch common sense saved him from any such calamity. But at thirty years of age it is not good for any one, no matter how well balanced, to have things come his way too fast and too consistently. And here were breaks. He could not have everything he wanted, and it was just as well that he should find that out.
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定位:Additional excerpt 352 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
博克向来想要什么几乎都能办成,这两次经历对他很新鲜,也让他困惑。他不容易被难住,这回却接连碰壁,怎么都找不到重新接近那位牛津导师或南丁格尔的办法,只好认输。作者说这对他有好处:三十岁的人,无论多稳重,事情来得太顺、太连续,都不是好事。碰一两次钉子,正好让他知道不是所有东西都能要到。顺境里保持清醒,逆境里别只感到挫败,要看到它在校正你的预期。
上下文
博克三十岁左右已任《妇女家庭杂志》主编,事业顺遂,这两次求见失败是他少有的挫折。
今日一问
如果最近一切太顺,你该主动去碰一件可能失败的事吗?
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