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爱德华·博克:爱德华·博克自传·补录 355
爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导
"But, pardon me, has not Miss Greenaway returned? Is not that she?" asked Bok, as he indicated a figure just coming down the stairs. And as the sister turned to see, Bok stepped into the hall. At least he was inside! Bok had never seen a photograph of Miss Greenaway, he did not know that the figure coming downstairs was the artist; but his instinct had led him right, and good fortune was with him.
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定位:Additional excerpt 355 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录
白话
博克想见插画家格林纳威小姐,却被挡在门外。他灵机一动,指着楼梯上正走下来的一个人问:“那位是不是格林纳威小姐?”趁对方转头去看,他一步跨进大厅——至少人已经进来了。他其实从没见过格林纳威的照片,根本不知道下来的是谁,但直觉和运气帮了他。这里的核心是:遇到硬性阻拦时,别硬碰硬,先找一个让对方无法拒绝的由头,把局面推进一小步。做法是观察现场、制造一个自然的提问或动作,让对方分神,你就能跨过第一道门槛。
上下文
博克是《妇女家庭杂志》主编,为约稿亲自赴英国拜访隐居的插画家凯特·格林纳威,被其姐妹挡在门外。
今日一问
你最近被哪道“门”挡住?能不能找到一个让对方自然分神的由头,先跨进一步?
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