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P.T. 巴纳姆：奋斗与胜利·补录 678
P.T. 巴纳姆《奋斗与胜利》· Struggles and Triumphs · 领导
During the summer, Governor Hawley, Hon. David Gallup, Speaker of the House, Hon. O. S. Ferry, U. S. Senator, Mr. W. G. Coe, of Winsted, Mr. A. B. Mygatt, of New Milford, Mr. Theodore Tilton, editor of the New York _Independent_, Mr. George Pratt, of Norwich, Mr. S. H. Wales, of the _Scientific American_, Mr. David Clark, of Hartford, Mr. A. H. Byington, of Norwalk, and many other gentlemen of distinction were occasional guests at Lindencroft. Several times we had delightful sails, dinners, and clam-bakes at Charles Island, eight miles east of Bridgeport, a most cool and charming spot in the warm summer days. The health of my wife, which had been poor since 1855, prevented many occasions of festivity for which I had all other facilities; for Lindencroft was indeed a charming residence, and it afforded every requisite for the entertainment of large numbers of friends.
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巴纳姆在自家庄园林登克罗夫特招待了许多政界和媒体名流，包括州长、议长、参议员和编辑。他们常去查尔斯岛航海、聚餐、吃蛤蜊宴。但妻子自1855年以来身体不佳，使许多社交活动无法举办。核心是：社交网络和好客能带来影响力，但家庭健康是更根本的制约。做法是：在条件允许时积极经营人脉，同时尊重家人的身体状况，不勉强。这告诉我们，事业与家庭需要平衡，不能为了社交牺牲家人健康。
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巴纳姆在康涅狄格州布里奇波特附近有庄园“林登克罗夫特”，常在此招待各界朋友。他的妻子 charity 长期患病。
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