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爱比克泰德:论说集与手册·摘录 72

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Something of this kind happens to us also generally. Now as this man has confidently intrusted his affairs to me, shall I also do so to any man whom I meet? (No), for when I have heard, I keep silence, if I am of such a disposition; but he goes forth and tells all men what he has heard. Then, if I hear what has been done, if I be a man like him, I resolve to be revenged, I divulge what he has told me; I both disturb others, and am disturbed myself. But if I remember that one man does not injure another, and that every man’s acts injure and profit him, I secure this, that I do not anything like him, but still I suffer what I do suffer through my own silly talk.

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/10661
定位:Excerpt 72 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

有人信任我,把事告诉我,我听了就保持沉默;但那人却出去到处说。如果我听到后像他一样,就会想报复,把他说的事也抖出去,结果既搅扰别人,也搅扰自己。但如果我记得:一个人不能真正伤害另一个人,每个人的行为只影响他自己,那么我就不会像他那样做,同时我仍然要承受自己多嘴带来的后果。关键是不模仿别人的错误,并管好自己的嘴。

上下文

爱比克泰德在《言谈录》中讨论如何对待他人的信任与背叛,强调自我约束。

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今日一问

今天,我是否因为别人泄露了我的话,而想以同样方式报复?

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