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塞内卡：塞内卡道德书简·摘录 46
塞内卡《塞内卡道德书简》· Seneca's Morals · 健康 · 行动 · 哲学 · 人性
Lucilius tells me, that he was written to by a friend, but cautions me withal not to say anything to him of the affair in question; for he himself stands upon the same guard. What is this but to affirm and to deny the same thing in the same breath, in calling a man a friend, whom we dare not trust as our own soul? For there must be no reserves in friendship: as much deliberation as you please before the league is struck, but no doubtings or jealousies after. It is a preposterous weakness to love a man before we know him, and not to care for him after. It requires time to consider of a friendship, but the resolution once taken, entitles him to my very heart. I look upon my thoughts to be as safe in his breast as in my own: I shall, without any scruple, make him the confidant of my most secret cares and counsels.
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定位：Excerpt 46 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
白话
卢西利乌斯告诉我，有个朋友写信给他，但叮嘱他不要向那人提及相关事情，因为那人自己也同样谨慎。这岂不是在同一口气里既肯定又否定，把不敢信任如自己灵魂的人称为朋友？友谊中不应有保留：结盟前可以深思熟虑，但结盟后就不该再有怀疑和猜忌。先爱后了解是荒谬的弱点，了解后却不关心更是如此。友谊需要时间考量，但一旦决定，就要把对方请进心扉。我相信我的想法在他胸中如同在我自己心中一样安全，我会毫无顾虑地让他成为我最隐秘的忧虑和计划的知己。
上下文
塞涅卡在《道德书简》中批评友谊中的不信任，强调真正的友谊需要完全坦诚。
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你是否曾对朋友有所保留，不敢完全信任？为什么？
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