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塞内卡:塞内卡道德书简·摘录 47

塞内卡《塞内卡道德书简》· Seneca's Morals · 健康 · 认知 · 投资 · 行动

It goes a great way toward the making of a man faithful, to let him understand that you think him so: and he that does but so much as suspect that I will deceive him gives me a kind of right to cozen him. When I am with my friend, methinks I am alone, and as much at liberty to speak anything as to think it, and as our hearts are one, so must be our interest and convenience; for friendship lays all things in common, and nothing can be good to the one that is ill to the other. I do not speak of such a community as to destroy one another’s propriety; but as the father and the mother have two children, not one apiece, but each of them two.

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/56075
定位:Excerpt 47 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

让人知道你信任他,这本身就大大有助于使他变得忠诚;而只要怀疑我会欺骗他,就等于给了我欺骗他的权利。和朋友在一起时,我觉得就像独自一人,可以自由地说任何话,就像想任何事一样。我们的心是一体的,所以利益和便利也必须共享;友谊使一切共有,对一方不利的事不可能对另一方有利。我不是说这种共有要破坏各自的财产权,而是像父母有两个孩子,不是每人一个,而是每人都有两个。

上下文

塞涅卡在《道德书简》中论述友谊中的信任与共享,强调信任能激发忠诚。

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今日一问

你如何向朋友表达信任,并让这种信任促进彼此的关系?

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