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安德鲁·卡内基：安德鲁·卡内基自传·补录 333
安德鲁·卡内基《安德鲁·卡内基自传》· Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie · 领导
The Peace-Maker has never had a quarrel in all her life, not even with a schoolmate, and there does not live a soul upon the earth who has met her who has the slightest cause to complain of neglect. Not that she does not welcome the best and gently avoid the undesirable--none is more fastidious than she--but neither rank, wealth, nor social position affects her one iota. She is incapable of acting or speaking rudely; all is in perfect good taste. Still, she never lowers the standard. Her intimates are only of the best. She is always thinking how she can do good to those around her--planning for this one and that in case of need and making such judicious arrangements or presents as surprise those coöperating with her.
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定位：Additional excerpt 333 · 核对日期：2026-10-19 · 核验：短摘录
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卡内基称妻子为“和平使者”：她一生从未与人争吵，连同学都没有，世上也没有谁觉得被她怠慢。她欢迎优秀的人，也温和地避开不合适的对象——没人比她更挑剔——但等级、财富、社会地位对她毫无影响。她不会粗鲁行事或说话，一切都得体有品味，同时从不降低标准，密友都是最优秀的人。她总在想如何为身边人做好事，为这个那个在需要时做计划，做出周到的安排或礼物，让与她合作的人都感到惊喜。核心是：待人温和而有原则，标准不降，却让人舒服。
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卡内基自传中对妻子路易丝性格的描写，展现她待人接物的方式。
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你能否既坚持自己的标准，又让身边的人感到被尊重和照顾？
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