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爱德华·博克:爱德华·博克自传·补录 323

爱德华·博克《爱德华·博克自传》· The Americanization of Edward Bok · 领导

"I hope I shall not offend you; I shall certainly say nothing with the intention to offend you. I must explain myself, however, and I will do it as kindly as I can. What you ask me to do, I am asked to do as often as one-half dozen times a week. Three hundred letters a year! One's impulse is to freely consent, but one's time and necessary occupations will not permit it. There is no way but to decline in all cases, making no exceptions, and I wish to call your attention to a thing which has probably not occurred to you, and that is this: that no man takes pleasure in exercising his trade as a pastime. Writing is my trade, and I exercise it only when I am obliged to. You might make your request of a doctor, or a builder, or a sculptor, and there would be no impropriety in it, but if you asked either of those for a specimen of his trade, his handiwork, he would be justified in rising to a point of order. It would never be fair to ask a doctor for one of his corpses to remember him by.

出处: https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/3538
定位:Additional excerpt 323 · 核对日期:2026-10-19 · 核验:短摘录

白话

有人写信求名家墨宝,名家回信婉拒:每周被求五六次,一年三百封,若都答应就没法干活。他说写作是我的行当,我只在不得不写时才写;没人把干本行当消遣。你向医生、建筑师、雕塑家要作品留念,他们也有权拒绝——向医生要一具尸体作纪念,显然荒唐。核心是:尊重专业者的时间,别把别人的谋生技能当免费消遣;拒绝时把道理讲清,不针对个人。

上下文

这是19世纪美国作家回绝求字信的话,由博克收录在回忆录中。

今日一问

你最近一次求人帮忙,是否占用了对方的谋生时间?

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